"irreplaceable"- Beyonce, "Got her Own" - Jamie Foxx, "Miss Independent" - Ne-Yo........ How many of you ladies like these songs? It's cool raise your hand no ones watching. These songs are good and send a great message and if you agree with them and practice what these songs preach shoutout to you. As a young man I'm starting to notice that young women like what these songs are saying as long as it's convient. How you ask? Quick question ladies when is the last time you called your man and told him to get ready because your taking him out? Oh don't worry I'll wait. Now now now ladies hold on don't get me wrong this isn't about men being cheap and not wanting to pay this is more about women not at all wanting to compromise. And if you follow my blog you should know that IMO love is built on truth and compromise. Ladies if you have a man and yaw in a calander year go on let's say 60 dates please tell me why your man has to pay for all 60. Come on now what kind of love is that. And girls are ruthless when it comes to dates. They can know full well that you get paid on the 13th but hound you about going out on the 10th. Now let your man say "baby I'd love to go out but I don't get paid until Monday so we can go but your gonna have to pay" I bet 7 out of 10 times yaw will be at home watchin blackbuster movies on BET. Which brings me back to the songs I mentioned earlier, are you really practicing what those songs preach or does it just sound good. Now because I'm such a cool guy I'm gonna let you ladies in on a little secret. Now guys are simple creatures who usualy enjoy little things. if you were to ask a guy on one date and pay that guy is gonna take on endless dates and tell you not to even bring a purse because you've shown him a very rare form of loyalty. An even bigger secret is if you attempt to pay the male ego will usually not allow you to. Again we like little things so the fact that you offered is so flattering to us that it makes us want to pay more. Now guys are probably wondering "why would he tell them this" well guys because the reality is that even though I just gave very helpful information the combination of the female ego and their general love for Beyonce will not allow them to use it. So to answer the general question of "who got this" at the end of the day the man should pay 8.5/10 times but those are just numbers the real answer is found through compromise which you should have with the one you love.
P.S. I would like to persoanlly thank @Raethoven (follow her via Twitter) for blessing me with the creative inspiration to write this blog I hope it was effective for the question she asked
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